How To Manage Debts Of Someone Who Has Died

How to Manage Debts of Someone Who has Died

It can be challenging to manage debts of someone who has died in your family or a close relative who has passed away as you would probably need to go through lots of paperwork. You can also seek help from a debt advice service if you do not feel confident in dealing with the problems of debt of your family member, relative or a friend.

In this blog post , we are going to cover the following point to help you manage debts of someone who has died in your family:

  • Checking the paperwork
  • Making a list of credit commitments
  • Ways to pay off debt when someone dies
  • Help from debt advisor

Check the paperwork and make a list of Credit Commitments

The first step to dealing with the debts of a partner or a family member who has died is to prepare a list of all creditors.

Go through the recent demand letters from creditors, and make a list of everything they owed.

You would need to identify if there is any guarantor debt and inform them as the liability of the debt is to be borne by the guarantor.

In addition, you need to check if these debts are in their individual name or with a partner.

It is also important to check the nature of the debt liability – secured debt or unsecured debt.

Secured debt always has priority to be paid up and above unsecured debt.

Therefore, it is important for you to know what type of debt the deceased has.

There may be chances that you may not know a few debts, which your relative had.

To avoid this problem, you can advertise in a local newspaper before you start arranging to pay the debts. This gives the deceased’s creditors time to come forward with their claims.

If you do not do this, you could find yourself years later having to deal with a creditor claiming on the estate.

This is the best practice you can adopt if you want to manage debts of someone who has died – just collect as much information as possible.

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What if I ignore creditor phone calls?

Some people find it quicker and easier to deal with creditors by phone, but for many people, it can be stressful, upsetting or inconvenient.

A creditor cannot insist on you dealing with them by phone and you will not get into any trouble if you refuse.

When you prefer not to take phone calls from your creditors, it becomes even more important that you read your letters and emails as soon as you get them.

Again, we are reaffirming – do not give them a wrong indicator that you do not pay your debts intentionally.

Ways to pay off outstanding debts after a death


Step 1: Firstly, Inform creditors that the person has died

Your relative’s creditors do not know the current situation and they can increase debt enforcement action for recovery of the debt if repayment is missed.

So, contact the creditors in writing and let them know that the person has died and you are now going through the legal process of dealing with the deceased person’s estate.

Tell them that you are going through the legal process of dealing with the person’s estate.

If it is a joint debt, Creditors will ask another account holder to pay the debt, so contact a suitable debt advisor for further help in arranging monthly payment as per his/her affordability and a suitable debt plan must be chosen.

Step 2: Insurance policy/ies can help to pay off debt

Another way to manage debts of someone who has died without burdening your finances is – Insurance. It is worth it to check if there is any insurance policy in the deceased name. Insurance policies are helpful in the event of unemployment, sickness and death events.

For example, life insurance to pay off the mortgage in case of death.

Alternatively, a mortgage protection policy to pay off the mortgage debt if you die.

Alternatively, PPI policy to pay out lump sum towards credit cards and unsecured loans debt.

You should do this no matter if there is secured or unsecured debt, as it would surely keep the diseased financial burden off from leftover estate.

You must contact the insurance company for lodging the claim.

If there is no insurance policy

You will need to contact the creditors to arrange to pay off the debts if they have not already made a claim on the estate.

For joint debts:
  • Ask your creditor to supply you loan agreement copy to see your joint liability
  • Ask your creditor to take out your deceased partner’s name from the account and transfer it in your sole name
  • If you cannot afford to pay each instalment in full, find a suitable debt advisor for help.
For individual debts:
  • Ask for a statement or letter showing the outstanding balance on the debt
  • Give them the name and contact details of the executor or administrator for the deceased’s estate. They are responsible for making sure that the debt is paid from the estate.
  • If you’re the administrator of the estate, you’ll need to have probate or a grant of administration
  • The executor will also pay the debts off in priority order.

Step 3: Pay in priority order

Once you have probate or grant of administration, you can use the money in the estate to pay off the debts that are not covered by insurance.

Paying the debts first is more important than distributing the estate to the heirs.

You should pay off the debts in this order of importance:

  • Secured debts, such as the mortgage
  • Reasonable funeral costs and the costs of administering the estate
  • Unsecured debts, such as credit cards, utility bills, unpaid rent, Council Tax and other taxes, and repayment of overpaid benefits.

If there are assets, such as a car or a house that if sold, could go towards paying off the debts, it is an option worth considering.

If there are more debts that the estate can payback, this is called an insolvent estate.

In this situation, it is best to seek the advice of a solicitor or a probate specialist.

What do I do if I am struggling to pay off debts after the death of my partner?

If you are struggling to pay off joint debts after your partner dies, or if the drop in income makes it hard to pay your own debts, it can be hard to know where to turn. And it can be hard not only to pay off the debt but also to manage debt altogether.

It is important to know you do not need to struggle alone with your debt worries.

If you are in debt and would like advice or help, please get in touch. We offer free and confidential debt appointments and our advisers are happy to assist you in your difficult time.

You will depend on your personal circumstances.

It is always best to talk things through with an experienced debt adviser for help and support in dealing with debts.

How will a debt adviser help you?

A debt adviser will support in:

  • Obtaining client permission for debt review
  • Assessing the extent of the client’s debt burden
  • Providing options for an agreement of settlement with creditors
  • Negotiating suitable terms with creditors
  • Ensuring that client’s stick to their debt payment terms
  • Assessment and review a client’s debt burden
  • Assistance in drawing up a settlement plan acceptable to creditors
  • To manage and ensure that payments are made regularly and timeously as per the agreement reached with creditors
  • Check you have applied for all the benefits and entitlements available to you.

You can contact our debt advisers in a way that is best for you:

  • Online
  • Face-to-face
  • Over the phone.

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  • Rajnish Tyagi

    Rajnish Tyagi possesses certification as a qualified debt advisor and specializes in writing about debt management and related topics. His aim is to assist individuals in comprehending and effectively managing their debts and credit issues. Additionally, Rajnish Tyagi holds the position of managing principal at "Acme Credit Consultants Ltd," an FCA regulated firm that provides tailored debt solutions to both individuals and businesses facing financial challenges.

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